Today we had a tabletop day to raise money for the station, I’m wearing my CHSR tee, and my new fatandnerdy comicbook skirt. I had a ton of fun, as always, and got to play some fun games. I even won Ticket to Ride, that’s a first for me. Also got to watch some Space Hulk get played, but it was too time consuming for me to commit too. I’d like to set up a time to play some more, I love games. Might have to invite some peeps to play Elder Signs.
Ahhh so cute! That’s super adorable with the bright red tights underneath!
I think about those guys with my ovaries. ACTIVATE PROCREATION. MUST BREED.
Annnnnnnd I love how you say fourth arms. Like the third one isn’t new - just the fourth one.
With my brain mostly. Sometimes my vagina.
Idk man, I don’t really concern myself with thinking specific thoughts about a certain body type?
I’m hosting a body posi beach day in Los Angeles next weekend! If you wanna come out and hang with us in your swimmiest of swimsuits, join the fb group to see all the details.
I’ll be hosting tons of other ones, so if you’d like to go to another in the future please join so you can see all the discussions and details of possible meetups!
Something new is in the works for my shop and I am sooooo freaking excited!!! Can you guess what it is?
Congrats on your new job!!! When I worked in an office I wore slacks, tank top and cardigan with crazy jewelry. Maxi dresses are seriously amaazing for an office. Since they can be soooo conservative, I tried to tone down the overt eccentric stuff and limit it to the accessories. Most places also want you to have close toed shoes, so keep that in mind. They’ll have you read and sign their company policy which will have a dress code section, so it’s safest to dress stuffy conservative until you get to read what they expect. If you got to see any of the staff in your department when you interviewed, you can use them as a clothing gauge.
When I was searching for slacks, I went to kmart on a whim and they actually had a REALLY good selection with different cuts and fabrics. I actually really love my slacks from there, so check them out. Target will be good for cardi’s and tanks. Come back and tell me how it goes!!
ngl, I wanna learn how to yodel so bad
You are a strong and powerful force, comprised of the same materials that make up galaxies. How could your body ever be incorrect if it is star stuff?
I still cringe when I hear anyone else use the word fat. Please remember it’s perfectly alright to not be strong all the time. What your mother did was so hurtful and I am so sorry that you had to deal with it at all. Focus on you right now and I’m here for you!
Thanks! They’re from One Stop Plus. They have a lot of wide calf boots there, along with Avenue, Lane Bryant and Torrid. If you get them online, just make sure to measure around the widest part of your calf and then compare that to the shaft circumference they give.
:3 thank you! If you feel up to it, next time they bring up something about another fat person, ask if they feel the same about you. They’ll say no, then you can ask why not? Sometimes that’s enough to make a friend reevaluate their actions, but I digress. I stay positive by understanding that not everyone is as *enlightened* as I am when it comes to body positivity. More often than not, those who are the most negative are just ignorant on the matter and aren’t willing to empathize with another human being. So why would I let their feelings or opinions stick with me?
There is absolutely no need to feel sorry! We’re taught that that’s the only thing that matters in life, so it’s so hard to break free from. Please don’t beat yourself up about not being able to instantly flip a switch.
Start small! Incorporate one thing you really love into your appearance every day. Like leggings or not wearing lipstick or what have you. It’ll boost your confidence because it’s something you love and over time you’ll feel better about adding yet another thing and another and another!
It’s my tumblrversary! Thank you for a year of putting these red chucks on dashes everywhere!
Anyone have experience with Paragard? I’m realizing it would cost me ZERO dollars and trying not to get overly excited about it but it’s not working eeeeee this is really exciting!?